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Gender-neutral inneihna leh fate
Gender-neutral marriage leh fa, chu chu naupangte nu leh pa dik tak hnena dikna chanvo pek an nih loh huna an mihring dikna chanvo an tihchhiat dan - mihring dikna leh puitling intluktlanna chhan atan hmangin
He thuziak hian gender-neutral marriage leh chhungkaw structure-in naupangte chunga nghawng a neih dan a sawi a ni. Gender neutral-marriage thlawptu leh khawtlang nunah sexual freedom duhtu te hian naupangte thlirna atanga thil an thlir tam lo hle. Puitling duhthlanna leh dan siamin naupangte chunga nghawng a neih dan an ngaihtuah lo. Heng mite hian intluktlanna, mihring dikna leh khawtlang inthlauhna chungchang chauh an sawi a, mahse naupangte pawhin mihring dikna chanvo an neih ve tur a ni tih an theihnghilh thin. An pian tirh atangin an nu leh pa dik tak pahnih hnenah dikna an nei tur a ni. Hei hi pek a nih loh chuan buaina a awm. Pa nei lo leh nu nei lo hi thil pangngai leh duhthusam anga ngaih a ni. Chumi hnuah chuan naupangte chu he dikna bulpui hi an laksak a nih thu leh chu chu lawmthu sawina pawh ni se, an insiamrem theih beisei a ni. He thupui hian naupang chungchanga sawihona chu gender-neutral marriage dodalna hian homophobia leh homosexual-te laka huatna a entir tih ngaihdanah sawn tum hi thil awmze nei tak a ni bawk. Chutianga sawitute chuan an ngaihdan nena inmil lo mi chhungril ngaihtuahna leh rilru put hmang chu an hre tawh a, an hre tawh niin an ngai. Thil dik tak avang chauha thil inrem lohna thei, mahse chuti chung pawha tumah huat loh chu an ngaihtuah lo. Gender-neutral marriage duhtute pawhin homosexual tam takin he thu hi an dodal tih hi an ngaihtuah lo. Naupangin pa leh nu nihna a bawhchhia tih an hmu a. Pathian awm ring lo homosexual Bongibault chuan interview-ah a sawi (Wendy Wright, French Homosexuals Join Demonstration Against Gay Marriage):
ENGVANGIN NGE MITEN GENDER-NEUTRAL MARRIAGE HI AN THLAWP? Mihringte hian homosexuality chungchangah eng ang ngaihdan nge an neih tih hriat tumnaah - pianpui mizia nge, background factor thenkhat leh chu mi chuan a chunga a thiltih danin a nghawng em tih hriat tum hian - miten duhthlan tur hmasa ber lam an hawi tlangpui. He thil hi a tlangpuiin innate inclination anga ngaih a ni Homosexuality hi pianpui a nihna hi Kristian gay movement aiawh tia sawi tam tak pawhin an duh hle a (hetah hian Finland-ah hian entirnan Yhteys-movement leh Tulkaa kaikki-movement ) Yhteys-movement hruaitu Liisa Tuovinen chuan kum 2002-a TV-a sawihonaah he ngaihdan tlangpui hi a rawn chhuah a:
A nihna takah chuan Paula hian homosexuality chungchangah hian ngaihdan a nei lo va, chu chu mihring pianpui mizia a nih avangin tihdanglam theih a ni lo. (2) .
Homosexuality hi pianpui mizia anga hriatthiam a nih chuan tunlai khawtlang nunah hian gender-neutral marriage leh homosexual nunphung hi a tha zawnga thlir chhan lian ber pakhat a ni ngei ang. Vun rawng emaw, veilam emaw ang chi pianpui mizia a nih chuan homosexual nunphung leh chutiang mizia nei mite humhim chu a dik lo em ni? Mipat hmeichhiatna lama an duhthlannaah mi thlawp hi a dik lo em ni? Mahse, thudik tak chu eng nge ni? Homosexual tam tak ngei pawhin pianpui a nih thu an hnial. Ṭhenkhat chuan pianpui a ni an ti mai thei a, mahse mi tam tak chuan an rilru put hmang lo pian chhuahnaah hian same-sex sexual seduction leh dinhmun hian chanvo a nei tih an pawm a ni. Hengte hi kum sawmhnih engemaw zat kalta khan psychology-ah pawh ngaihdan tlanglawn tak a ni. Chuvangin thinrimna emaw, engvangin nge misualte hi dinhmun chi hrang hrang atanga lo chhuak an nih tlangpui tih nen pawh a inang hle. Tuman an lo seilian dan leh an chunga thil tih tawhte chu tumahin an thlang thei lo va, mi pakhat chuan ngaihdam a duh leh duh loh, misual a nih dawn nge, homosexuality a kalpui dawn tih chu amahin a thlang thei a ni. Chûng thil ti tûra thlêmna a awm thei a, mahse eng emaw chen chu a nun duh dân chu a thlang thei a ni:
Mithiam pakhat zirchianna ngaihnawm tak ka chhiar a: chu chu active homosexual mi engzat nge chutianga piang an nih an rin tih hriat tumin survey a ni. Interview-naa tel zaa 85 chuan an homosexuality chu an in lama a tir lama thil tihchhiatna leh mi dang thlemna avanga nungchang zir chhuah a ni, an ti. Tunlai hian homosexual nena kan inhmuh huna ka zawhna hmasa ber chu, “Tunge chutiang atana infuih tharna pe che?” An vai hian min chhang thei vek. Chutah chuan ka zawt ang, “I pa u nen in inhmu lo a nih chuan, emaw, i cousin chu i nunah lo lut lo se chuan nang leh i sexuality kha engtin nge thleng ang? A nih loh leh i stepfather tel lovin? Eng thil nge thleng ang tih i rin?” Hei hi bells a ri tan lai a ni. “A ni mai thei, a ni mai thei,” an ti thin. (3) .
Mahse, Ole hian "homosexual gene" chi khat a awm a ring lo. Homosexual feelings awm chhan hi a buaithlak zawk niin a ngai a, entirnan, twins inang tam tak a hriat thu a sawi a, chung zinga pakhat chauh chu homosexual a ni. Ole chuan a nungchang hi thil tam takin a thlen niin a ngai a, chu chu a naupan laia a pa nena an inlaichinna buaithlak leh tha lo tak te hi a ni. Ole hian a naupan lai atanga a pa nena an inzawmna chungchang a sawi hian a insum lo. A pa chu a awm ngai lo niin a hria a, a pa chu a hlau hle bawk. Pa chuan a chang chuan raging fit a nei a, Ole chuan vawi engemaw zat chu a pain mipui hmaah tumruh takin a timualpho niin a hria a. Ole chuan a pa chu a huat thu chiang takin a sawi. (4) .
Harri hian media-a homosexuality chungchang sawihona leh homosexuality chungchang zirchianna hi a ngaihven hle a ni. Homosexuality hian pianpui thil nen inzawmna a nei tlem hle tih a ring tlat a ni. He ngaihdan hi, entîr nân, miten mipat hmeichhiatna hman duhna an neih chhan hriat a awlsam fo vâng a ni. A tlangpuiin mipat hmeichhiatna lama tharum thawhna an tawk emaw, an nu leh pate emaw, an ṭhiante emaw nêna inlaichînna harsa tak an nei a ni. Harri chuan, "Hei hian a hmasa berah chuan genes chungchang a ni lo tih min rin tir a ni. Mahse, mi ṭhenkhat tan chuan homosexual inclination nei zawka siamtu gene thenkhat neih hi thil theih loh ka ti lo," a ti. (5) .
Amah chungchangah chuan Tepi chuan homosexuality hi a rilru lama harsatna chi khat, a tihpun tumna a neih vang niin a ngai. Tepi chuan a naupan laiin a pa chu a hlau hle tih sawiin, "chutiang mipa hlauhna" chu a la nei reng tih a sawi. Tepi chuan hmeichhia zingah nu a zawng tih a sawi. Tepi hian a lesbianism chhan hi ngaihtuah mah se, hmeichhia a duh dan chungchang pawh sawiin, "As it has gone kind of shockingly naturally, I've sometimes really wondered how it can go that way. Kawng lehlamah chuan hei pawh hi a chhan a awm niin a ngai bawk. Tepi hian homosexuality hi genes vang emaw, mi pakhat chu a pian tirh atangin gay emaw lesbian emaw a ni thei tih a ring lo. A ngaihdan chuan mi chu gay emaw lesbian emaw-ah a seilian a, harsatna bik nei lovin a seilian a ni. (6) .
Dik tak chuan kei pawh gay tam tak ang bawkin homosexuality hi khawi atanga lo chhuak nge tih hi ka ngaihtuah thin. Naupang mize hi a dam chhung kum thum chhungin a lo piang chhuak niin ka ring a, mipat hmeichhiatna lam pawh a huam tel bawk. Hei hi boruak leh mihring biology-in a nghawng vek a ni. Homosexuality hi rochun atanga lo chhuak a ni tih hi ka ring lo tak zet a ni. Ka chhungte thenkhat tan chuan ka homosexuality hi a harsa em em a, a chhan chu a rochun theihna an hlauh vang chiah a ni. (7) .
Homosexuality hi genes avanga lo awm a ni em? Kan sawi tawh ang khan tuna homosexuality chungchanga standard hrilhfiahna pangngai chu pianpui atanga lo chhuak a ni a, genes, a nih loh leh naupai laiin hormone chhuak atanga lo chhuak a ni. Mite chuan homosexuality hi biological factors avanga lo awm ber niin an ngai. Mahse, he hrilhfiahna hi twins chungchanga zirchianna chuan a thlawp lo. Twins inang chiah chiah hian gene inang chiah chiah leh nausen pum chhunga boruak inang chiah chiah an nei a, chutih rualin pakhat chauhvin anmahni mipa leh hmeichhia an ngaihven thei a ni. Homosexuality hi genes avanga lo awm a nih chuan hetiang hi a ni tur a ni lo. A hnuaia thuziak hi he thupui chungchanga zirchianna lian tak atanga lak a ni a, chu chu Canada rama neih niin, mi 20,000 vel an tel a ni. Genes leh heredity hi homosexuality lo chhuahna atana thutlukna siamtu a ni lo tih a tilang a ni.
Canada rama twins chungchanga zirchianna an neihah chuan genes aiin social factors a pawimawh zawk tih hmuhchhuah a ni (...) Research result atanga a lan dan chuan genes hian awmzia lian tham a nei lo. Twin inang pahnih zinga pakhat chu homosexual a nih chuan twin dang pawh hian mipa leh hmeichhia inang mi a ngaihven theihna chance 6.7% a awm a ni. Non-identical twins tan percentage chu 7.2% a ni a, regular siblings tan chuan 5.5% a ni. Heng result te hi a chunga kan sawi tak homosexuality atana genetic model nen hian a inmil lo hle. An nu nausen pum chhunga twins te lo thanglian dan boruak hi hormone lamah chuan twins pahnih tan hian a inang chiah a, chuvangin Bearman leh Brucker te result an hmuh chuan naupai laiin nu hormone inthlauhna hian homosexuality a thlen tih theory chu a tidik lo a ni. (...) Tun hmaa twin study-ah khan an subject-te chu clinic-ah emaw, homosexual organisation kaltlangin emaw an hmu a, a nih loh leh sample tlemte chauh an nei bawk. Bearman leh Brucker te chuan an zirchianna hi a rintlak ber a ni tih an sawi a, a chhan chu hnam pum huap pawha thalai zirchianna atanga random sampling atanga lak a nih vang a ni. Test subject 20,000 vel an awm! Chu bâkah, zirchiangtute chuan twin pahnih zînga pakhatin twin-te sexual orientation chungchânga a sawi chu an ring lo: Chu ai chuan twin dang hnênah chuan an kal a, chu chu an zawt ta zâwk a ni. (8) .
Homosexuality zirchiangtute chuan a tlangpuiin homosexuality hi pianpui a nihna hi an ring lo. Finnish Seta movement dintu Olli Stålström chuan he thu hi a dissertation Homoseksuaalisuuden sairausleiman loppu (The end to stigmatizing homosexuality as an illness, 1997)-ah a rawn chhuah a ni. Homosexuality zirchiangtute chuan "I was born gay" theory hi hun rei tak chhung chu an thlawp lo tih a sawi. Scientist za tam takin an telna scientific conference pahnih a sawi a:
Kum 1987 December thlaa scientific conference pahnih neih chu history-a thil pawimawh tak anga ngaih theih a ni ... inrawlhna ram hrang hrang 22 atanga homosexuality zirchiangtu 100 in 100 working groups... Conference-ah hian homosexuality chu rilru lam harsatna anga classification chu innate nature theory hmanga thlak a dik lo tih pawh an pawm tlang a ni. Homosexuality chungchanga ngaihdan pawimawh tak chu a tlangpuiin hnawl a ngai niin an ngai a, chutiang ngaihdan chuan homosexuality hian hun leh nunphung atanga innghat lo, chhan engemaw tak nei essence a nei a ni. (p. 299-300) a ni.
Naupang ramhuai . Sexuality hi thil awmdan leh boruak nena inzawmna a neih tam zia tilangtu pakhat chu naupang tê tê ran bula awm tûra kalsante hi a ni. Sexual interest an nei lo tak zet a ni. Hei hian mihring mipat hmeichhiatna pawh hi khawtlang thilin a nghawng tih a tilang a ni. Biology chauh hi a tichiang lo. Developmental psychology zirchiangtu leh psychology assistant professor Risto Vuorinen chuan a lehkhabu Minän synty ja kehitys [Birth and development of self] (1997) -ah heng naupang te, ramsa tia koh, rannungin an enkawl, chhuahsan tawhte chungchang hi a sawi a. Sexuality hi genes chauh hmanga tihfel ni ta se, chutiang chu a awm lo ang:
Naupang ramngaw te asexuality hi thil hmuhchhuah pawimawh tak a ni. Taksa puitling tawh mah se, mipat hmeichhiatna lama ngaihvenna an lantir lo... Mipat hmeichhiatna lama hmasawnna atana hun pawimawh hmasa ber a awm niin a lang.
Gender-neutral marriage duhtu tam tak chuan anmahni ngei pawhin innateness argument hi a dik lo va, a bulpui pawh a nei tha lo tih an pawm nghal vek a ni. Chumi zinga pakhat chu John Corvino a ni a, homosexuality hi innate feature a nih a ring lo. Heti hian a sawi tawh a ni: "Mahse, thubuai ṭha lo chu thubuai ṭha lo a ni a, chuta ṭang chuan eng ang pawhin thutlukna nuam - leh dik tak - siam ni mah se" (9) Research atanga a lan dan chuan kum upat danah pawh sexual identity hi eng emaw chen chu a danglam thei a, mahse a tam zawk chu heterosexual lam hawiin a danglam thei a ni. Thalai thenkhat tan chuan an gender identity hi a la chiang lo mai thei a, mahse kum upat danah chuan a tam zawk chuan heterosexual identity pangngai an hmu ang:
Kum 2007-a American zirchianna lian tak, kum 16-22 inkarte sexual identity danglam zel chungchanga tihchhuahah chuan homosexual emaw bisexual orientation chu kum khat chhungin heterosexual-ah a inthlak theihna chu a lehlamah aiin a let 25-in a tam zawk tih a tarlang. Tleirawl tam zawk tan chuan homosexual rilru put hmang chu kum upat deuh deuhin a tlahniam thin. Mipa naupang kum 17 mi, unilateral homosexual interest nei zinga zaa 70 vel chuan kum 22 an nih laiin unilateral heterosexuality an lantir a ni.(Savin-Williams & Ream 2007: 385 pp.) (10)
TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE LAW HI THIL THLENG THIN EM? Gender-neutral marriage chungchanga thutlukna pakhat chu, traditional marriage law chu inthliarna a ni tih hi a ni. Chuvangin gender-neutral marriage thlawptute chuan an ngaihdan an humhim laiin, intluktlanna leh inthliarna dona chungchang an sawi thin. Media-te pawhin mihring dikna leh intluktlanna chungchânga thuchah mawi taka khuh an rawn chhuah thei bawk.
Puitling zawng zawng tan nupui pasal neih theihna leh inneihna awmzia tihdanglam . Traditional marriage law nena inzawma inthliarna chungchang sawi dawn chuan puitling zawng zawngin nupui pasal neih theihna an nei tih hi sawi tur a ni. Hetah hian exception a awm lo. Mipa emaw hmeichhia emaw puitling apiang chu mipa leh hmeichhia inneihnaah an lut thei a ni. Chutiang chuan inneihna dan hlui chu a inang tawh a, tumah a thliar hrang lo. Chutiang lo sawi chu thil dik tak nen a inkalh a ni. Chu ai chuan mipa leh hmeichhia inneihna tihzauh tumna hian inneihna awmzia a tidanglam bawk. Inneihna tih thumal hian a hmaa a neih ngai loh awmzia thar a nei ta a ni. Entirnan, hnathawhna hmun leh hnathawk inkara hnathawhna hmun pangngai chu inneihna tihna a ni tih emaw, chutiang chu ni lo mah se, bicycle leh thlawhna chu car a ni tih emaw sawiselna ang mai a ni. Mihring chanchina kum zabi tam tak chhung chu mipa leh nupui inkara inzawmna chauh tihna nia hriatthiam a nih tawh thumal hi chutiang chuan gender-neutral concept of marriage hmangin awmzia danglam takah a inthlak ta a ni. Kum sâng tam tak chhûng nunphung lian zawng zawnga lo awm tawh thiltih chu a tidanglam a ni.
Hmangaihna chi dang. Gender-neutral marriage law hian inthlauhna leh inthliarna a ti bo ang tih hi thubuai tha lo tak a ni a, a chhan chu inzawmna chi dang a awm vang a ni. A chhan chu homosexual inzawmna chu inneihna tia koh a nih chuan engtin nge dan inang atanga inzawmna chi dangte paih chhuah chu a dik theih ang? Engvangin nge inneihna danah hian homosexual minority chauh telh tur? Tuna miten he thu hi an humhim tumna logic ang chiah hi kan zawm a nih chuan a hnuaia inzawmna chi hrang hrangte pawh hi dan siamna huam chhungah hian telh tur a ni. An paih chhuah chuan, logic inang ang bawkin, inthliarna leh inthlauhna thlawpna a ni. Chutiang result chu gender-neutral marriage thlawptute ngaihdan kan zawm a, inneihna tih thumal awmzia kan thlak chuan:
• Nu leh fanu inzawmna, chhungkaw khata an awm avangin
• Mihring, a ui nena khawsa
• Nupui tam tak neihna
• Dorm khata awm zirlai pahnih
• Incest inzawmna pawh hi chi khat a ni. Gay inneihna duhtute pawhin a tlangpuiin chutiang inzawmna chu nungchang lama dik lo anga an ngaih avangin an pawm lo. Mahse, gender-neutral marriage chungchanga rilru put hmang tha lo neitute chuan chutiang bawk chuan an hnawl thei a ni. Nungchang lama dik loah an ngai mai thei.
Professor, Anto Leikola chuan he thu hi Yliopisto [University] magazine (8 / 1996)-ah Olisiko rakkauskin rekisteröitävä? [Hmangaihna pawh hi register tur a ni em?] . Logic ang chiah zawm a nih chuan homosexual-te tan chauh tihkhawtlai chu a inmil lo hle tih a sawi bawk. Engvangin nge anmahni chauh hi inneihna dan huam chhungah telh an nih ang, chutih lai chuan inzawmna chi dang tam tak, norm atanga inthlak danglamna a awm lai hian?
Unau pahnih inzawm tlat, apartment nei dun duh leh a aia tam, fa inzawmkhawm pawh nei duh ta se engtin nge ni ang? Engvangin nge homosexual aiin an tan a harsa zawk ang? A hnuhnung zawkte inkarah hmangaihna a awm a, mahse a hmaa mite inkarah erawh hmangaihna a awm lo vang em ni, a nih loh leh ṭhiante chauh inkara inhmangaihna a awm vang em ni? ...A vaiin, partnership registration hi social event a ni ...Chutiang hun remchang chu mipa leh hmeichhia tan pek a nih chuan engvangin nge homosexual chauh a nih tur tih hi ka la hrethiam lo. A nih loh leh, mipa leh hmeichhia, mipa leh hmeichhia, khawsa dun leh inzawm tlat zawng zawngte hi homosexual vek niin kan ngai em? A nih loh leh, mipat hmeichhiatna hian mipat hmeichhiatna nena inzawmna a neih a ngai lo tih kan ngaihtuah em... Mipat hmeichhiatna nena inzawmna ziahluh hi duhthusam anga kan ngaih a, mahse midangte ni lo, mipat hmeichhiatna (sexual orientation) register chungchang a nih thu hi,
Homosexual tam zawk chuan nupui pasal neih an zawng lo . Gender-neutral marriage kalpui a nih tawh chuan a pawimawh ber pakhat chu inthliarna leh inthlauhna dona hi a ni. Gender-neutral marriage, homosexual nupa inneihna hian inthliarna a ti bo dawn niin an ngai a. Mahse, thudik tak chu, homosexual inneihna hun rei tak a lo awm tawhna ramteah chuan mi tlemte chauhvin nupui pasal neih an duh a ni. Netherlands ramah chuan same-sex marriage hi kum sawm chhung zet a awm tawh a, mahse homosexual nupa zinga 20% chauh innei an ni. Mimal nena khaikhin chuan a tlem zawk daih. Mi thenkhat chhut dan chuan homosexual mimal zinga 8% chauh inneihnaah an lut thin. A taka hman chuan he chhiarpui hian homosexual zinga tlemte chauhvin nupui pasal neih an duh tih a tarlang. Chu ai chuan a tam zawk chuan (a thlawptute ngaihtuahna ang chuan) intluktlanna leh inthliarna laka zalenna tawn chu an duh lo zawk a ni.
NAUPANG STATION . Sawi tawh angin, gender-neutral marriage hi intluktlanna lam atanga thlir chuan leh human rights issue angin a dik a ni. He thil hi pawm a nih chuan dan siam dik lohna chu a bo vek dawn tih sawifiah a ni. Amaherawhchu, he thupui hi puitling lam thlirna a\ang chauha chhui a ni a, naupangte pawh theihnghilh a ni. Gender-neutral marriage dan hi mihring dikna chanvo chungchang a ni tak zet a, mahse a sawi tum nen chuan a kalh zawng a ni: naupangte mihring dikna chanvo bawhchhiatna tihna a ni. A chhan chu homosexual nupaten fa neih an tumna hmunah (entir nan, sperm bank leh womb rental hmanga tih theih emaw, homosexual zinga pakhat chu heterosexual relationship-ah hun eng emaw chen a awm tawh emaw) a nih chuan, puitlingte’n gender-neutral marriage chu an dikna anga an ngaih vang mai maia naupang chu a pian tirh atanga a pa emaw, a nu emaw tak tak nen inthen tihna a ni. Chutiang chuan gender-neutral marriage law chuan puitlingte chhiatnaah naupangte a thliar hrang a ni. Puitlingte zalenna chu naupangte dikna chanvo bulpui hmaah dah a ni. Naupang chu pa emaw nu emaw nei lovin a seilian a ngai tih dinhmun a awm ngei ang, mahse puitling duhzawng tihhlawhtlinna tur chauha tumruh taka naupang pa nei lo emaw, nu nei lo emaw siam chu thil danglam tak a ni. Hei hi gender-neutral marriage-a fa neihna hmuna thil thleng a ni. France ramah chuan homosexual tam tak ngei pawhin he thu-ah hian an ding a ni. Gender-neutral marriage law hian naupangin pa leh nu a neih theihna tur dikna a bawhchhia tih an hmu a. Hei vang hian gender-neutral marriage hi an hnawl a ni:
Jean-Pierre Delaume-Myard: Homosexual homophobe ka ni em... Gender neutral marriage hi ka dodal a, a chhan chu fain pa leh nu a neih theihna tur dikna ka humhim vang a ni. (11) .
Jean-Marc Veyron la Croix: Mi tin hian kan tih theih chin kan nei vek a: fa ka neih loh vang leh fa ka ngai em em mai hian nu hmangaihna chu fa hnen ata laksak theihna tur dikna min pe lo. (12) .
Hervé Jourdan: Naupang chu hmangaihna rah a ni a, hmangaihna rah angin a awm reng tur a ni. (13) .
Fa neih hi . Heterosexual relationship chungchang sawi dawn chuan same-sex relationship nena khaikhin chuan danglamna lian tak pakhat an nei a, chu chu heterosexual relationship chauh hian fa a nei thei a, a hnuhnung zawk hian a nei thei lo. Hei hi nupa inneihna hi fate tan bul tanna tha ber a nih chhan lian ber pakhat a ni bawk. Naupangte chu a tir a\angin an pa leh nu dik tak enkawlna hnuaia seilian theihna hun remchang a siamsak a ni. Homosexual inzawmna chungchanga buaina erawh chu, naupangte chu hun eng emaw chen atana heterosexual inzawmna hmanga emaw, nausen pum rental emaw, sperm bank emaw ang chi artificial method hmanga hmuh a nih chuan naupang chu pa nei lo emaw, nu nei lo emaw a ni. In lamah a nu leh pa dik tak zinga pakhat tal a bo a, chu chu a seilianpui theih tur a ni. Puitlingte duhthlanna avang hian naupang chu a tir atangin a nu leh pa dik tak dang tel lovin a awm a ngai a ni. Anmahni ngei pawh homosexual chhungkuaa seilian te chuan hetianga fate pa emaw nu emaw neih theihna tur dikna laksak hi an sawisel nasa hle a; puitlingte intluktlanna tura ngenna hmangin. An nu leh pa zinga pakhat emaw hnena dikna chanvo laksak an ni. A nu lesbian leh a kawppui hmeichhia nen seilian Jean-Dominique Bunel chuan a tawn dan a sawi. Pa tlakchham vangin a tuar a. Hmun dangah chuan a lo puitlin lai khan gender-neutral marriage hi hman tawh ni ta se, state chu a hek ngei ang, a chhan chu a fate dikna chanvo tihchhiat theihna a nih avangin:
A hnuaia comment hian he thu hi a sawifiah bawk. Pa emaw nu emaw awm loh vang hian naupangte chuan homosexual environment-a seilian an harsat chhan a ni. Nu leh pa pakhat chauh homosexual chu nu leh pa nihna kawngah a tling tawk lo em tih zawhna a ni lo va, naupang chu a pian tirh atanga a nu leh pa dik tak dang awmna atanga tumruh taka tihbo a ni zawk:
Robert Oscar Lopez (2012) chuan homophobia thusawi hi mi dangte ngaihdan dik lo leh rilru zau tak nei niin a sawisel a, a chhan chu amah ang mite chu homophobic, lesbian nupa in lama seilian, an nun hmun tam zawk chu homosexual culture-a khawsa, mahse naupang pa leh nu neih theihna tur dikna a bawhchhia nia an hriat avangin gender-neutral marriage hi an la dodal reng a ni. Lopez-a sawi dan chuan, a nu leh a hmeichhe kawppui te ina a seilian lai khan pa neih lohna chu a harsat hle tih tlang taka a sawi vang mai maia homophobic tia vuah a harsa hle. "Sex-sex nupa chuan heterosexual parenting model chu surrogacy emaw, artificial insemination emaw, divorce emaw, commercialized adoption hmanga tihdanglam an tum emaw, moral risk tam tak an la a ni. Naupang, heng moral risk karah hian an inhmu a, an nu leh pate’n Father’s leh Mother’s Day ang chi culture tradition atanga anmahni inthen darhtu nun buaithlak leh rilru lama buaithlak tak siam tura an chanvo an hre chiang hle. Naupangte dinhmun chu a harsa hle a, chu chu an nu leh pate’n an chunga natural stress an tihbuai vang chauha an tawrh vang – leh an pawm vang maia ‘homophobic’ tia koh an nih hian. (Lopez 2013.) (15) A rilru a hah lutuk chuan a rilru a buai em em a.
Naupangte hi artificial method hmanga kan hmuh hian womb rental leh sperm bank hmanga kan hmuh hian ethical problem tam tak kan hmachhawn a ngai a ni. Womb rent chungchanga buaina chu nuin a fa phur chu a kalsan a ngai a ni. Uterine rental-ah hian tum ber atan dah a ni. Naupang chunga a rilru put hmang chu thunun tura beisei a ni a, chu chu hlawh pek a ni. A dikna chanvo chu a hmuh leh tawh ngai lo mai thei naupang hnenah a hralh a ni. Mahse, mi tam tak tan chuan hei hi an nu nihna avang hian a rit lutuk mai thei a, chu chu surrogacy contract tihtawp duhna chhan a ni. Heng hmeichhiate hian an chhungril naupang chu an hmangaih tih an hrethiam a, chu chuan an rilru a thlak danglam ta a ni. Hei bakah hian nausen pum rent hi naupang tan harsatna a ni. A chhan chu nuin naupang chunga a dikna a hlan chuan naupang chuan kalsan ang maiin a tawng thei a ni. A tan zawhna a lo chhuak thei a, engvangin nge a nuin pawisa a hralh a, a ngaihsak loh. A dangte bakah Alana Newman-i website AnonymousUS.org-ah chuan chutiang naupangte thil tawn leh rilru put hmang a sawi a ni. Homosexual relationship-a cheng Frank Litgvoet pawhin hetiang case hi dik takin a sawi a ni. A fate enkawl, an nu ngai em em te chanchin a sawi. Nuin a tir atanga a fate a kalsan chhan chu naupangte tan chuan hriatthiam harsa leh hrehawm tak a ni:
Open adoption-a naupang “nu nei lo” dinhmun hi a lan dan angin a awlsam lo hle a, a chhan chu nau piang nu, naupang nunah a lo lut a, a chhuak ta a ni. Tin, nu chu taksa lama a awm loh lai pawhin, puitlin thleng tawh naupang enkawl tam tak chanchin a\anga kan hriat angin, mumang, lem, duhthusam leh lungkhamnaah a la awm reng a ni. Kan fate nunah nu lo thleng hi a tlangpuiin thil mak tak a ni. Nuin a chhuahsan hian naupangte tan a harsa zawk a, chu chu puitling duhawm tak thlah chu a lungchhiatthlak vang mai ni lovin, engvangin nge a tir atanga nuin a fa a kalsan tih zawhna harsa leh hrehawm tak a siam vang a ni. (16) .
Sperm bank leh fertilization treatment hmanga ethics te hi engtin nge ni ang? Mipain an sperm chu insemination atan an duhthusamin an pe a, chuvangin heng mipa te hian uterus rental-a lo awm thei ang kha an tuar a ngai dawn lo tih a chiang. Mahse, fertility treatment-a harsatna awm chu naupangte chu pa nei lo phurrit phurrit phurrit a ni. Artificial-a siam fate chu nuin tumruh taka an pa hriat theih lohna leh inzawmna nei thei lo dinhmunah a dah a nih chuan harsatna nasa tak an nei thei a ni. Tapio Puolimatka chuan Yale University rilru lam doctor Kyle Pruett-a’n he thupui chungchanga a zirchianna a sawi a (Kyle Pruett: Fatherneed, New York, Broadway, 2000). Naupangte tan chuan an pa tak tak nena inzawmna nei lo chuan intermediate state chi khata awm chu thil harsa tak a ni:
Yale University psychiatrist Kyle Pruett (2000: 207) chuan a zirchianna aṭang chuan naupang, artificial insemination avanga piang leh pa nei lo seiliante chuan "an pa awmna nghet tura riltamna" tihreh theih loh an nei tih a sawi. A zirchianna hi nupa inthenna leh nu leh pa pakhat chauh neih chungchanga zirchianna, pa nihna nei lo ang chiah chiah tarlanna nen a inmil hle. Pruett-a zirchianna hian artificial insemination avanga piang naupang, an pa chungchang hriat tur nei lote chuan an biological origin leh an biologically descended chhungkua chungchangah zawhna thuk tak leh buaithlak tak tak an nei tih a tarlang bawk. Heng naupangte hian an pa emaw, an pa chhungte emaw an hre lo va, an pa tak tak nena inzawmna nei lovin in-between state chi khata awm chu an tan chuan thil tenawm tak a ni (Pruett 2000:204-208) (17)
Alana Newman pawhin he thupui hi a sawi chhunzawm zel bawk. Amah ngei pawh hi artificial insemination hmanga piang a ni a, chu chu a hming hriat loh donor atanga sperm hmanga siam a ni. Naupangin a nu leh pa tak tak nena inzawmna siam leh an enkawlna hnuaia seilian theihna hun remchang a neih loh dan chu nasa takin a dodal a ni. Amah ngeiin a thil tawn avang hian identity problems leh opposite sex laka huatna a tuar a ni. California Legislature-a thuziak a sawinaah he thupui chungchangah hian heti hian a ziak a ni:
... Ka rilru inthlauhna tichhe thei identity issues, opposite sex laka rin lohna leh huatna, objectified anga inhriatna – midang inkhelhna ang maia awm ang maia ka tuar a ni. Science experiment ang maiin ka inhria. (18) .
Naupangte tana nu leh pate pawimawhna . Television programme leh chanchinbu thuziak-ah te hian naupangte’n an la tawn ngai loh nu leh pa dik tak an hmuh duh dan leh an nun atanga bo tawh chu an zawn chhuah duh dan an sawi fo thin. Mahni zung zawn chhuah duhna an nei a, an hnen atanga bo tawh pa emaw nu emaw tak tak hmu duhna an nei bawk. Tunlai hian hei hi a hluar chho zel a, eg, inthen tam lutuk vang a ni. Naupang lam atanga thlir chuan nu leh pa dik tak pahnih an awm a, an inngaihsak tawn hi a pawimawh hle. Hei hi nunphung (practical life observation) tam takah pawh a chhuak bawk. Nu leh pa nena an inzawmna a chhe tawh, entirnan zu, tharum thawhna emaw, inthenna pangngai emaw avanga naupangte chuan an nunah harsatna tam tak an tawk a, chu chu chhungkaw intact-a seilian naupangte tan chuan a tlem hle. Entirna hmantlak tlemte chuan hei hi a kawk a ni. A bik takin pa nei lo, in lama pa awm lohna chu tunlai harsatna a nihzia a tilang a ni:
California-a Hume Lake-a mipa camp pakhata thu ka sawi lai khan pa pangngai chuan ni khatah a fate nen minute thum chauh quality time an hmang tih ka sawi a. Inkhawm zawhah mi pakhat chuan ka information chu a zawtfiah a. Ani chuan, "Nangni thuhriltute hian thil in sawi mai mai a ni. Zirchianna hnuhnung ber aṭanga a lan dan chuan, pa pangngai chuan nitin minute thum pawh a fate bulah hun a hmang lo va, second 35 vel a hmang ṭhin ," tiin a hau a ni. Central California-a school inspector hna a thawh avangin ka ring a ni. Dik tak chuan statistic mak tak mai min pe leh a. California-a school district pakhatah chuan special education-a zirlai 483 an awm a. Chu zirlai zingah chuan tumahin in lamah pa an nei lo . Seattle khawpui pawn lama hmun khatah chuan naupang 61% chu pa nei lovin an khawsa a ni. Pa awm lohna hi tunlai hian chibai bukna a ni. (19) .
Hei hi thupui sawiho nên engtin nge a inzawm? A tawi zawngin, nu leh pa dik tak pahnih awmna te, nu leh pate inhmangaihna leh, a nihna takah chuan naupangte hmangaihna hi naupang hriselna leh hmasawnna atan a pawimawh hle. Naupang chu buaina hniam tak nei chhungkuaah a nu leh pa dik tak bula awm phalsak a nih chuan a lo thang lian ber a, a lo thanglian tha ber tih zirchianna tam tak a awm. Inthlauhna tur chu naupang, nu leh pa inthenna emaw nu leh pa pakhat chauh nei chhungkua, chhungkaw thar leh inpawlna tawk tawhte an nih chuan naupangte hmasawnna kawngah chuan a danglamna tha lo zawk an ni tih hmuhchhuah a ni. Mipat hmeichhiatna lama inzawmnaah chuan buaina chu a nasa zawk (naupangte chu hun eng emaw chen atana heterosexual inzawmna hmanga emaw, artificial method hmanga hmuh emaw a nih chuan), a chhan chu anmahniah chuan naupang chu a dam tirh a\angin nu leh pa pakhat tal a\angin a inthen a ni. Naupang tan chuan duhthlan tur tha tak a ni lo tih a chiang a, a chunga kan sawi tawh ang khan. Comment tlemte chuan chhungkuaa nu leh pa dik tak pahnih neih a pawimawhzia a tilang chiang hle. Miin a nupui/pasal inthen a tum chuan ngaihtuah nawn leh tur a ni. Nu leh pa tumah hi famkim an ni lo tih chu a chiang a, a châng chuan, entîr nân, tharum thawhna avângin inṭhen hran chu a ngai thei bawk. Mahse, naupangte tan chuan duhthlan tur tha ber chu nu leh pate inrem tawn a, in pawm tawn zir hi a ni:
Research-in chiang takin a tarlang a, naupangte tan chhungkaw dinhmun hi a pawimawh a, chhungkaw dinhmun, nu leh pa dik tak pahnih inneihnaah chhungkaw hruaitu neiin, nu leh pate inkara buaina level a hniam hle tih a tarlang bawk. Nu leh pa pakhat nei chhungkaw naupang te, nu pasal nei lo atanga piang fa te, leh chhungkaw inzawmkhawm emaw, inkawp emaw a fate chu kawng tha lo takah an lo thang lian zawk a ni... Chuvangin, naupang tan chuan nu leh pa dik tak inkara inneihna nghet leh nghet tak siam hi a pawimawh hle a ni. (21) .
Naupangte mamawh bulpui zawng zawng ngaihtuah vek a nih theih nan system design turin min ti a nih chuan khawi emaw laiah kan tawp mai thei a, chu chu nu leh pa pahnih neih tumna nen a inang a ni. Theory-ah chuan hetiang ruahmanna hian naupangte hian puitling pahnih hun leh tha an hmuh theihna tur a siam mai bakah, controlling leh balancing system a pe bawk a, chu chuan high-class parenthood a tipung a ni. Nu leh pa pahnihin naupang nena an inzawmna (biological relationship) hian nu leh pate chu naupang nen an inhriat chian theihna a tipung a, naupang tana inpekna siam tura an inpeih theihna a tipung a ni. Nu leh pate’n naupang an hmansual theihna a ti tlem bawk. (22) .
Naupangte chu mimal ni lo institution-a dah an nih chuan taksa enkawlna ṭha tak nei mah se, an ṭhang lian lo tih finthlak takin a lang a, nu aṭanga inṭhenna – a bik takin hun engemaw chen – chu naupang tan a tichhe hle tih a ni. Institution care-a thil thleng tlangpui chu rilru lama harsatna, ngaihsak lohna, hnungtawlh leh thihna thlengin a ni a, chu chu surrogate mother tling tak a awm loh chuan a ni. (23) .
Sawi tawh angin naupang nunah nu leh pa pahnih pawimawhna hi a pawimawh hle tih hmuhchhuah a ni. Hei hi practical experience leh zirchianna tam takin a finfiah a ni. Nu leh pa pakhat chauh chu nu leh pa nihnaah entawn tlak tak an ni thei a, mahse chu chuan mipa leh hmeichhia bo tawh chu a thlak lo. Zirchianna atanga a lan dan chuan naupang chhungkaw kehchhia (nu leh pa pakhat nei chhungkua, chhungkaw thar...) atanga seilian naupangte hian a hnuaia harsatna chi hrang hrang hi an nei tam zawk a ni. Anni chuan nu leh pa dik tak pahnihte hmangaihna nena awm chu a pawimawhzia an târ lang a ni:
• Zirna level leh school graduate rate a hniam zawk
• Pa nei lova seilian tlangvalte chu tharum thawhna leh sualna kawngah an hruai tam zawk
• Emotional disorder, depression leh mahni intihhlum tumna hi naupang chhungkuaa nu leh pa pahnih nei lote zingah a tam zawk
• Ruihhlo leh zu hman hi a tam zawk
• Tleirawl naupai leh mipat hmeichhiatna lama tihduhdahna tawk hi a tam zawk
Engtin nge homosexual nupa enkawl naupangte chu he setting-ah hian an awm? A tawi zawngin, chhungkaw inlaichinna chhe tak atanga lo piang naupang dangte ang bawkin harsatna an nei ve tho. A hnuaia table, Australian Sotirios Sarantokis-a’n he thupui chungchanga a zirchianna (22) nena inzawm hian he thupui chungchangah hian thil engemaw zat a tarlang a ni. Kum 1996-a a buatsaih zirchianna hi kum 2000 thlenga naupangte hmasawnna result tehkhin zirchianna lian ber a ni a, he zirchiannaah hian nu leh pate ngeiin an tehna, sikul result leh zirtirtuten naupangte hmasawnna an tehnate chu a ngaihtuah a ni:
Hetiang zirchianna dang hi sociology professor Mark Regnerus-a pawhin a nei bawk. Chhungkaw inrelbawlnain naupangte chunga nghawng a neih dan a zirchiang a ni. He zirchianna thatna chu random sampling leh sample lian tak (American thalai 15,000) atanga lak a nih vang a ni. Chu bakah, puitling zinga pakhatin a chang chuan homosexual relationship a neih tawh chhungkua te pawh telh a, sample hi tihzauh a ni bawk. He zirchianna hi sociology publication sang ber Social Science Research-ah tihchhuah a ni. He zirchianna hian homosexual nupa fate hian nu leh pa dik tak pahnih nena seilian naupangte aiin rilru leh khawtlang nun lama harsatna an nei tam zawk tih a tarlang. Robert Oscar Lopez, amah ngei pawh hi nu lesbian leh a kawppui hmeichhia nen a seilian a, Regnerus-a zirchianna chungchang hi a sawi chhuak a:
Regnerus-a zirchiannaah hian naupang puitling 248 an hmuchhuak a, an nu leh pate hian mipa leh hmeichhia inhmangaih tawnna an nei a ni. Hêng naupang puitlingte hi puitling lam aṭanga an naupan lai hun kal tawh chu chiang taka ennawn theihna hun remchâng an pêk chuan, gender-neutral marriage agenda-a awm egalitarian claim nêna inmil lo chhânna an pe a ni. Mahse, heng result-te hi nunah thil pawimawh tak, common sense-in a thlawp a ni: Midangte nena danglam taka seilian chu a harsa a, heng harsatnate hian naupangte chuan insiamremna lama harsatna an neih theihna tur leh zu leh nungchang hlauhawm dang hmanga mahni invenna an neih theihna tur a tipung a ni. Chu interview-naa tel mi 248-te chuan rinhlelh rual lohvin anmahni mihring chanchin an nei vek a, thil buaithlak tak tak tam tak an nei a ni. Ka thawnthu ngei ang bawkin, . heng mi 248 te chanchin hi sawi tlak a ni. Homosexual movement hian tumahin an ngaihthlak loh nan theihtawp an chhuah thin. (25) .
Homosexual nupa fate hian harsatna an nei hi thil mak a ni tur a ni lo. In chhe tawh atanga lo kal naupang zawng zawng tan pawh chutiang bawk chu a ni. Naupangte aiin an nunah harsatna tam tak an nei a, chu chu intact biological family-a seilian chanvo nei tawhte aiin an nei tam zawk a ni. Tin, homosexual culture hi naupang tan chuan harsatna a awm a, eg a hnuaia thil awmte avang hian. Naupang nunah innghahna tlak lohna an thlen a ni:
• Gay te hian inzawmna (loose relationship) an nei tam zawk. Hei hi mipa homosexual tan chuan a dik hle a, zirchianna pakhat (Mercer et al 2009) atanga a lan dan chuan heterosexual mipa aiin a let nga zetin mipat hmeichhiatna lama inzawmna an nei tam zawk a ni.
• Homosexual hmeichhiate hi inzawmna tawi tak nei an ni. Hmeichhe nupa inthlauhna percentage chu mipa nupa aiin a sang zawk tih hmuhchhuah a ni. Chubakah, heterosexual nupa nena khaikhin chuan an danglamna percentage hi a sang zawk hle. Hei hian naupang nunah innghahna tlak lohna a thlen bawk.
• Nupa turnover a san a, puitling zinga pakhat tal chu naupang nu leh pa ngei a nih loh chuan mipat hmeichhiatna lama tihduhdahna a sang hle. Regnerus-a zirchiannaah chuan an pa leh nu tak takte enkawl naupang zinga 2% chauhvin mipat hmeichhiatna lama khawih an nih thu an sawi a, nu lesbian enkawl naupang 23% chuan chutiang bawk chu an tawng tih an sawi thung. Hmeichhia nupa aiin mipa homosexual zingah pawh hetiang bawk hi a tam lo hle.
• Hriat angin homosexual movement activist tam tak chuan hetiang thil hi miten an duhthusamin homosexual nunphung atanga chhuah an duhna hmunah hian an dodal a, an sawichhiat bawk. A hlauhawm hle nia sawiin an bei nasa hle. Mahse, mipat hmeichhiatna hmang tam takte nunphung hi a takah chuan mipat hmeichhiatna lama inzawmna tam tak avang hian a pawi lo va, a hlauhawm hle bawk. A bik takin mipa hian mipat hmeichhiatna hmanga kai theih natna leh natna dang, mi pakhat atanga mi dang kai theihna an nei sang hle. Thil dang bakah AIDS hi harsatna a ni. Hei hian anmahni dam chhung chu nasa takin a ti tawi thei a, mahse naupang hnen atangin nu leh pa dang a la bo thei bawk. Hei hian naupang nun a ti nghet lo bawk. A hnuaia thuziak hian thupui chungchang a sawi belh a ni. Dr. Robert S. Hogg kaihhruai zirchianna a ni. A pawl hian kum 1987-1992 chhung khan Vancouver area-a gay leh bisexual mipa te data an khawlkhawm a ni. He zirchianna hian natnain a nghawng dan a en a, a tendency ni lovin, dam rei zawng zawngah a nghawng dan a en a ni. Vanneihthlak takin tun hma atang tawhin vaccine siam chhuah a ni a, .
Bi leh homosexual mipa kum 20 atanga kum 65 thlenga dam theihna chance chu zaa 32 leh 59 inkar a ni. Heng zat hi mipa dang a tlangpuiin a hniam zawk hle a, kum 20 atanga kum 65 thlenga dam theihna chance zaa 78 an nei a ni.Thutawp: Canada khawpui lian takah chuan gay leh bisexual mipa kum 20 inkar dam rei zawng hi mipa dangte aiin kum 8-20 velin a tlem zawk a ni. Hetiang bawk hian thihna hi a awm chhunzawm zel a nih chuan kan chhut dan chuan tuna gay leh bisexual mipa kum 20 tling tawh zinga a chanve vel chuan an piancham vawi 65-na an thleng dawn lo. Liberal ber ber ngaihdan pawhin, tunah hian he khawpui laihawl-a gay leh bisexual mipa te hian kum 1871-a Canada rama mipa zawng zawng dam rei zawng nen a inang vek a ni.(26)
ENGTIN NGE MITE CHU HEI HI AN CHHUNH? Sawi tawh angin, nu leh pa pakhat chauh homosexual chuan nu leh pa nihnaah a theihtawp a chhuah thei a, a fate tan nu leh pa tha tak nih a tum thei bawk. Chu chu i hnial thei lo. Mahse, chhungkaw dinhmun a pawimawh tih erawh chu thil dik tak a ni bawk. Zirna tam tak, nun tawnhriat tangkai tak tak leh common sense te chuan naupangte tan company-a seilian leh anmahni nu leh pa tak takte hmangaihna nena enkawlnaah a tha ber tih a tarlang. Nu leh pa an tlin lohna avang hian hetiang hi a thleng famkim lo tih chu a chiang a, mahse a tlangpuiin naupangte hi nu leh pa dik tak pahnih an awm chuan an ti tha zawk tih hmuhchhuah a ni. Chuti a nih chuan, gender-neutral marriage thlawptute hian engtin nge he thu hi an chhan ang, a nih loh leh homosexual nunphung hi zawhna a siam a nih chuan? A tlangpuiin a hnuaia reaction angin a lang chhuak thin:
Homophobia leh hate speech hmanga puh hi a tam hle. Mi tam takin he puhna hi an siam a, mahse thilah kan inrem lo a nih pawhin midang huat tihna a ni lo tih hi ngaihtuah ngai lo. Inhnialna siamtute chuan mi dang chhungril ngaihtuahna chu an hre thei lo va, inrem lohna awm mah se, midang chu hmangaih theih a ni tih an hrethiam lo mai thei a, a tlem berah chuan hmangaih tum a ni thei bawk. He danglamna hi hriat chian a ngai. Kawng lehlamah chuan, gender-neutral marriage thlawptu rilru na ber berte chuan anmahni aia thil danglam zawk hmutute sawichhiat leh sawichhiat hi thil awmze nei tak a ni. Hmangaihna aiawhtu nia inchhal mah se, chu chu an che lo. Nangmah ngei pawh chutianga sawichhiatna i nih chuan eng nge i hlawkpui emaw, i nunphung atan mi zawng zawng pawmpuina i hmuh chuan?
Mawhphurtuah puh. Hemi hma hian naupangte hamthatna atana chhungkaw inrelbawlna a pawimawh dan sawi a ni tawh bawk. Tleirawl naupai, dan bawhchhiatna, ruihhlo hmansual leh rilru lama harsatna te hi nu leh pa dik tak zinga pakhat tal bo nei chhungkuaah a tam zawk tih hmuhchhuah a ni. Hei hian sum lamah pawh nghawng a nei a, khawtlang nun senso a san avangin. Entirnan, kum 2008-a USA-a zirchianna an neihah chuan nupa inthenna leh nupa inneihna pawn lama nau piang hian chhiah petute tan kum tin dollar tluklehdingawn 112 vel a seng tih hmuhchhuah a ni (Girgis et al 2012:46). Chutiang bawkin Etelä-Suomen sanomat chuan October 31, 2010 khan heti hian report a tichhuak a: Naupang leh thalai enkawlna institutional care ah hian tluklehdingawn khat sen a ni thuai dawn a, Naupang harsatna hi kum 1990 chho tir lam atang khan nasa takin a zual a... Naupang pakhat enkawlna institutional care hian kum khatah euro 100,000 thleng a sen a ni.... Chu bakah, Aamulehti chuan March 3, 2013 khan a report bawk: Thalai hnuaihnung pakhatin maktaduai 1.8 a seng a ni. Pakhat pawh khawtlang nunah hruai kir leh a nih chuan a rah chhuah chu a tha a ni. He thu hi mi dangte’n engtin nge an chhân lêt? Tunah chuan nu leh pa nei lo, nu leh pa homosexual emaw, an inneihnaa hlawhchhamte emaw chu dem an ni ta niin an sawi mai thei. Mahse, chutiang lam atanga thlir erawh a ngai lo. Chutiang bawkin, mi tinin thil siam that theih dan tur ngaihtuah thei a ni. Miin, entirnan, a nupui/pasal leh chhungte kalsan a tum a nih chuan, ngaihtuah nawn leh tur a ni, a chhan chu chu chuan fate leh an hmalam hun atan nghawng thui tak a nei thei a ni. (A tlangpuiin naupang tharum thawhna vawi tam tak hmu leh tawn tawhte chauhvin an nu leh pate inthenna chu hahdamna atan an tawng thei a ni.) A nih loh leh, homosexual pakhatin artificial method hmanga fa neih a tum a nih chuan, pa emaw, nu emaw nei lova khawsa naupangin engtin nge a hriat tih chu a ngaihtuah tur a ni. Naupangte tana chhungkaw inrelbawlna pawimawhzia chungchanga thu hriatte hi exercise thatna emaw, hriselna atana meizuk hlauhawmzia emaw sawina nen hian a inang deuh hlek a ni. He thu hi a awm a, mahse mi zawng zawngin an chhanglet vek lo. Amaherawhchu, mi zawng zawng tana hriat tur awmte kan zawm chuan kan taksa hriselna a titha ang.
"Bawlhhlawh zirchianna" . Practical sense leh nitin nun tawn hian naupangte chu nu leh pa dik tak pahnih chhungkuaa seilian phalsak an nih chuan a tha tih thlawp mah se, gender-neutral marriage thlawptu rilru na ber ṭhenkhat chuan hei hi hnial an tum a ni. Nu leh pa dik tak awmna chu a pawimawh lo a, mahse puitling dangin nu leh pa bo awmna chu a thlak thei niin an sawi. Hetah hian he ngaihdan hi nemnghettu zirchianna bikte an tarlang a ni. Chutih rual chuan chhungkaw dinhmun awmzia chungchanga a hmaa thu hriat zawng zawng chu "junk research" leh science lam thila thu hriat loh a nih thu sawifiah a ni bawk. Chuvang chuan hnawl turah an ngai a ni. Mahse, gender-neutral marriage duhtute’n an sawi zirchiannate hi i en chuan, science lama innghat lo thu hriatna (unscientific information) chhinchhiahnate chu an tlin zawk a ni. A chhan chu eg a hnuaia thil awmte hi a ni:
The sample of the studies is small , a vaiin interview-naa tel 30-60 chauh an ni. Sample size tenau te hian statistically significant result a pe thei lo. Generalization siam tur chuan sample size hi multiple a ni tur a ni.
Comparison group a awm lo emaw, chhungkaw chhe tawh emaw an ni. Zirna tam takah buaina chu mipa leh hmeichhia inthlauhna nei nupa tehkhin group an nei lo tak tak a ni. A nih loh leh tehkhin pawl a awm chuan a tam zawk chu nu leh pa pakhat, insiam thar emaw, inkawp chhungkaw emaw an ni. Naupangte thanlenna atana tha ber nia hriat nu leh pa dik tak inneihna hi tehkhin pawl atan hman a tlem hle. Chhungkaw chhe tawh naupangte hian harsatna an tawk nasa zawk tih a hmain sawi tawh a ni.
APA-in zirchianna 59 a hman zinga 26 chuan mipa leh hmeichhia inthliarna nei nupa awmna comparison group an nei lo tak zet a ni. Zirna 33-ah chuan chutiang tehkhin pawl chu an nei a, mahse zirchianna 13-ah chuan tehkhin pawl chu nu leh pa pakhat nei chhungkua an ni. Zirna dang 20-ah chuan tehkhin pawl chu nu leh pa pakhat, nupa inkawp, chhungkaw thar emaw, naupang nu leh pa dik tak siam nupa emaw an ni em tih erawh a chiang lo. He tlakchhamna chauh hian generalization chu buaina a siam a, Brown (2004: 364) chuan American naupang 35,938 leh an nu leh pate a zirchiannaah sum leh pai leh nu leh pa nihna eng pawh ni se, thalai (kum 12-17 inkar) te hian nupa inkawp chhungkuaah hian nupa biological nu leh pa pahnih nei chhungkua aiin outcome an nei tlem zawk tih a sawi avangin. (27) .
Random sampling leh interview pawimawhzia hriatna a awm lo . Sample tlem a nih chuan harsatna dang chu a then chu random sampling-a innghat lo mahse interview-naa telte hi activist forum atanga lak an nih vang a ni. Interview-naa telte hian zirchianna hi politics lama a awmzia an hre chiang hle a, chuvangin chhanna "a remchan dan angin" an pe thei a ni. Chu bâkah, tuin nge mahni fate ṭhatna chungchâng emaw, naupang pakhat emaw chu a nu leh pate, tute remtihna nge a mamawh tih thu ṭha lo sawi duh? Hetiang a nih avang hian he lama zirchianna engemaw zat hian kum sawm tam tak kalta a Alfred Kinsey-a’n zirchianna a buatsaih chu a hriat nawn tir a ni. Random sampling hmanga siam an ni lo a, mahse Kinsey-a zirchianna result langsar tak chu sex offender, pawngsualtu, pimps, pedophiles, gay bar-a customer leh sexually deviant dangte hnen aṭanga lo chhuak a ni. Kinsey-a result hi American mipui zatve aiawh nia sawi a ni a, mahse a hnu lama zirchianna hrang hrangah chuan result danglam tak a awm a, Kinsey-a thuchhuah chu a hnial bawk. Hemi chungchang hi Dr. Judith Reisman-i chuan a lehkhabu nghawng nei lian tak "Kinsey: Crimes & Consequences" (1998)-ah a ziak a ni.
Tum zawng zawng? A tawpah nau pai chu dan anga pawm a nih chuan dan loa nau pai hi a tam hle niin an sawi. Entirnan, Finland ramah hian kum tin dan loa nau pai 30,000 vel a awm thin niin an sawi a, mahse dan an thlak hnuah chuan a zat chu 10,000 vel chauh a ni. Eng thilin nge hetiang inthlauhna lian tak hi a thlen? Nau pai duhtu ṭhenkhat chuan a hnuah tlang takin an pawm a, dan siamtute leh mipui ngaihdan tihbuai tumin an zat hi an tizau hle tih an sawi. Mi pakhat chuan gender-neutral marriage nena inzawm zirchianna tam takah goal orientation inang chiah a awm em tih a zawt thei. Ṭhenkhat chuan chutiang thiltum chu a thleng tih an pawm a ni. Chhungkaw insiam dan chu naupangte thanlenna nena inzawm lo a nihzia lantir an duh avangin zirchiangtute chuan danglamna chiang tak hmuh theihte chu an ngaihthah a ni. A hnuaia comment hian hei hi a kawk a ni:
Stacey leh Biblarz (2001: 162) te chuan zirchiangtute chuan homosexual nupa enkawl hi heterosexual nupa enkawl ang bawkin a tha tih lantir an duh avangin, zirchiangtu rilru na tak takte chuan heng chhungkaw pianphung inang lo tak takte hi fimkhur takin an enkawl thin tih an pawm a ni. Phên dangin sawi ila, zirchiangtute chuan puitling inkawp nu leh pa enkawl dânah danglamna hmu tak tak mah se, an ngaihsak lo va, an pawimawhzia an ti tlem a, a nih loh leh an danglamna chungchâng zir chianna dang an nei lo. Nu leh pate mipat hmeichhiatna lama an rilru put hmang hian zirchiangtute’n an enkawl dan aiin an fate a nghawng nasa zawk a ni (Stacey & Biblarz 2001: 167). (28) .
Research tam zawk hi zirchiangtu tlemte chauhin an ti tih kan hria bawk. A châng chuan an thawkdun tawh bawk. Chu bâkah, ṭhenkhat chu homosexual background nei emaw, gender-neutral marriage chu active takin an thlawp emaw a ni. Hei hi unbiased research atan chuan a bulpui tha lo tak a ni.
Mimal zirchiangtu ngaihdanin nghawng a neih chu a tizual hle a, a chhan chu zirchiangtu tlemte chauhin zirchianna 60 sawi tur zinga a tam zawk an tih vang a ni. Charlotte J. Patterson hi chu zirchianna 60 zinga 12-ah chuan co-author a ni a, Henny Bos chu 9-ah, Nanette Gartrell-i chuan 7-ah, Judith Stacey leh Abbie Goldberg-te chu pali-ah co-author an ni a, mi tlemte chu zirchianna pathum-ah co-author an ni. Research an nei dun fo tawh a ni. Hei hian independent study a tihtlem bakah researcher-te biase-te nghawng a tipung bawk. Hei hian zirchianna engemaw zatah pawh hetiang thu hi sawi nawn fo a nih chhan a sawifiah a ni. Charlotte Patterson hi University of Virginia-a psychology professor a ni a, a zirlai zingah hian a hlawhtling hle. Research hna nasa tak a thawh bakah hian mipat hmeichhiatna lama nupa chhungkaw pakhata nu leh pa nih dan chungchangah pawh a mit ngeia thil tawn a nei bawk: kum 30 chhung zet Deborah Cohn nena an inzawmnaah fa pathum a enkawl tawh a ni. Nanette Gartrell hian a nupui Dee Mosbacher nen tangkawpin homosexual-te dikna chanvo chu nasa takin an humhim a, homosexual organization langsar engemaw zat sum hmanga research project US National Longitudinal Lesbian Family Study (NLLFS)-a zirchiangtu ber a ni. Henny Bos hi University of Amsterdam-ah zirna lama professor hna a thawk a, Nanette Gartrell nen NLLFS research project-ah an tel dun tawh bawk. Abbie Goldberg hi Worcester, Massachusetts-a Clark University-ah psychology professor a ni a, a hnathawhna hmunah hian a hlawhtling hle. A zirchianna hna a thawh tirh atang khan "social practices leh mass media-te hian dominant norm an tih chu a lantir a, chu chu chutiang taka thunun tawh lo (chu chu heterosexual nuclear family structure) a ni"" tih buaina a tawk tih a sawi. A expert ngaihdan engemaw zatah Judith Stacey hian gender-neutral marriage chu a dodal a, mahse duhthlan tur tha ber chu inneihna institution zawng zawng tihtawp a ni tih a ngaihtuah a ni. A ngaihdan chuan inneihna institution hian a takin inthlauhna a tipung a ni. (29) . mahse, duhthlan tur ṭha ber chu inneihna kalphung zawng zawng tihbo hi a ni tih a ngaihtuah a ni. A ngaihdan chuan inneihna institution hian a takin inthlauhna a tipung a ni. (29) . mahse, duhthlan tur ṭha ber chu inneihna kalphung zawng zawng tihbo hi a ni tih a ngaihtuah a ni. A ngaihdan chuan inneihna institution hian a takin inthlauhna a tipung a ni. (29) .
Hmangaihna . Nazi-hoin euthanasia an dodal lai khan a chhan pakhat chu lainatna a ni. Mihring nun zawng zawng hi nun tlak a ni lo tih sawifiah a ni a, chuvang chuan thil dang bakah he thu hi humhim tumna atana propaganda film siam a ni. Khawngaihna hmingin thutlukna siam a ni a, chu chuan a tawpah chuan a rah chhuah rapthlak tak a thlen a ni. Hmangaihna hmingin vawiin thleng pawh hian thil tam tak an humhim a ni. Hmangaihna dodal chu thil dik lo a ni lo tih chu a chiang a, mahse a tam zawkah chuan a takah chuan mahni hmasialna hmai tuamna a ni thei a, a bik takin puitling pakhatin naupang laka a inngaihsakna atan chuan. Tun hnai kum sawmhnih chhunga khawtlang nunah thil thar a lo chhuah tak avangin, a tam zawk chu naupangte nen a inzawm tlat a ni. Naupangte chu puitling duhthlannain a rah chhuah chu tawn tir an ni. Sexual revolution, nau pai tihtlem leh gender-neutral marriage te hi entirnan pathum a ni:
• Sexual revolution ngaihdan chu nupa inkara inpekna tel lova sex hman chu a pawi lo tih a ni. He thil hi "mi pahnih hian an inhmangaih a nih chuan thil dik lo a awm lo" tiin an chhanhim a ni. Chumi hmaa nu leh pate inpekna nei lo, chutiang dinhmuna naupang piang a nih chuan eng nge lo awm tawh a, eng nge a rah chhuah? A hlim ber chu nu leh pate inzawm nghal a, naupang chu nu leh pa pahnih awmna inah a pian theihna option hi a ni ngei ang. Mahse, a tih dan erawh a danglam fo thin. Nu leh pate hian nau pai an paih thei a, an inthen thei a, naupang chu nu pakhat (a nih loh leh pa pakhat chauh) enkawlna hnuaiah a awm thei bawk. Chuvangin mipat hmeichhiatna lama zalenna, hmangaihna nena humhim a nih theih chu naupang tan chuan duhthlan tur tha a ni lo.
• Nau pai tihtlem hi sexual revolution hnuah a lo thleng a ni. Tûn laiah pawh hian he thil humhalhtute hian nu pum chhunga naupang, nau piang thar emaw, entîr nân, naupang kum 10 mi emaw, taksa peng inang (mit, hnar, hmui, ke, kut) nei chu mihring a nih loh chhan sawifiahna an pe thei lo. Nu pum chhunga awm mai mai hi a bulpui tur a ni lo.
• Gender-neutral marriage – he thuziak thupui ber hian naupangte tan pawh harsatna a thlen thei bawk. A chhan chu chutiang union-a naupangte chu artificial method emaw, temporary hetero relationship emaw hmanga hmuh an nih chuan naupang chu in lama a nu leh pa dik tak pakhat tal a bo theihna dinhmunah a dah a ni.
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